The groom should read as the center of the group in every photo, without looking disconnected from his groomsmen. The trick is one intentional difference. Here are the best options.
Ways to stand out
- Shade: a slightly different tone, or a tuxedo when the party wears suits.
- Vest: add a vest for a three-piece look while groomsmen stay two piece.
- Tie: a different tie or a bow tie against the groomsmen's ties.
- Lapel: a peak or shawl lapel when the party wears notch.
- Boutonniere: a distinct flower sets the groom apart subtly.
Keep it intentional
Choose one or two of these, not all. Too many differences look mismatched rather than deliberate. The groomsmen should still form a consistent backdrop that makes the groom pop.
We coordinate the whole party
We help you plan the groom's look against the groomsmen so it is clearly intentional, and we keep the group consistent. See our wedding suits and tuxedos page and current offers.
Frequently Asked Questions
How should the groom look different from the groomsmen?
Use one clear difference, such as a different shade, a vest, a distinct tie, a different lapel, or a unique boutonniere, while keeping the groomsmen uniform.
Should the groom wear a different color than the groomsmen?
A slightly different shade or a tuxedo against the party's suits is a popular way to stand out. Keep it close enough that the group still looks coordinated.
Can the groom wear a tuxedo while groomsmen wear suits?
Yes. A groom in a tuxedo with groomsmen in coordinating suits is a classic way to make the groom stand out.
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